why women cheat

Posted on December 7, 2007 by melski1027.
Categories: random thoughts.

got this from one of my favorite sites:

why do women cheat?

For a start, harsh as this may sound to men, it takes a LOT for a woman to cheat. Much like how most women have more of an emotional journey about the act of sex, it’s quite a leap for most women to go from faithful to cheating and creeping. A woman needs to be really pissed off, disillusioned, and fed up before she will open up shop for another man. It’s very rarely purely about the sex, his appearance, or sexual attraction and when she cheats it’s combined with how the experience and the man make her feel about herself, which is clearly a damn sight better than her husband/boyfriend makes her feel.

Cheating for women is all tied up in:

1) Self-esteem – Validation of themselves, feeling better than they feel.

2) Feeling neglected and underappreciated.

3) Revenge.

Women are far more likely to get drawn into emotional cheating first before there is ever any sex involved.